It will come, @hajimon_53 – one of the best things to do is just what you’re doing. This is a sort of coding round table, we come together and discuss stuff. Not only code, but the concept behind the code.
Many of the same concepts apply in any language – python, php, java, C# – so grasping the concept is, to my mind, more important than the particular language. Ask questions, research, find a core of people who think like you, but also a little… different.
I go to musical jam sessions often, and to coding jams. The idea is the same. If we get together and I see you making a musical chord I don’t know, I’m going to ask and watch and learn. When I see someone writing code that breaks, I’m going to want to tinker with it, see if there is a kernel of something new that expands my knowledge.
As with anything, it’s time and experience. I got faith in you, @hajimon_53! You got this far, keep it going!